Friday, May 29, 2009
Make Your Own | Taco Seasoning
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Egg-cellent
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Don't Tell Me You're Bored. I'll Give You Something To Do.
Have you used that line on your kids before? I know I have. And I'm sure it's been out of frustration. The kids are bored. Nothing to do. Hardly ever the case with moms though, right? "A mother's work is never done." Tell me you're bored and I'll give you a dust rag or a mop.
Several years ago, while visiting the in-laws, I found this book laying on the dresser in the guest room. Coincidence? Were they trying to tell Lawman and me something? Doesn't matter. It caught my attention. So much so that I asked them if I could take it with me when I left. They obliged. (Although I'm sure what they were thinking was "SCORE!")
Turns out that I've used this book as a point of reference time and time again ever since. And, most often in the summer as it seems that's when it's easier for me to FOCUS on the tasks at hand.
As a freshman in college, I remember a specific encounter with another gal in the laundry room. It was early in the semester, maybe 2 weeks since the start of classes, and many of us had ventured to the laundry room to put in a load or two. This particular gal I am remembering, had apparently never had to do her own laundry. She hadn't the slightest idea where to start. She asked me for help. I'm sure I gave her a wide-eyed look like, "What? You're kidding, right?" Well, being the good samaritan that I am, I showed her how to sort, start the washer, etc. Within 10 minutes she had her undies in the washer and gave a sigh of relief.
Shame on her mama for allowing that to happen! What had she been doing for 18 years with that girl at home? Didn't she ever have chores to do?
Sadly, that's the way of life for many young people all across America and the world today. They are catered to in their own homes and never taught a single life-skill. How in the world can we, as parents, expect our children to be productive citizens of society if they can't even boil water or do a load of laundry?
Are you still with me? Back to the book.
This book is about teaching skills to our children. Yes, skills. Simple skills. It indicates that by the time a child is 11 they should be able to perform many household tasks on their own. Did you catch that? BY AGE 11.
Since finding this book about 6 years ago I've referred to the list of age appropriate skills at least a million times. And I did so again just last week. I even asked our youngest daughter, who will turn 12 in another week, to read what skills she should be able to do. After she read them I asked her if she thought she could successfully complete everything that was listed. She thought there were some things that she probably needed practice on so we made our goals for the summer. Here's what she will be working on.
Cooking from a recipe;
Laundry and;
Sewing on a button.
It's no wonder she needs practice with sewing on a button. She doesn't see her mother do that very often!
Since that episode in the dormitory laundry room years ago, I vowed that I wouldn't allow my children to be in that predicament. The cooking and laundry will be easy skills to work on as those things happen on a daily basis at our house. As for the sewing on of a button....well, we'll see about that.
Monday, May 25, 2009
The Summer Bucket List
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Packin' Up & Checkin' Out
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Occupational Hazard
To most boys, big or little, it looks like fun.
Black eye doesn't mean a fist fight. Green paint doesn't have anything to do with Shrek. Muddy boots and pants equates to running through mud puddles.
For Lawman, it's an occupational hazard. A play day too. For me, it means laundry.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Satisfied
~ Start laundry ~ Go to Work ~ Stain Deck (Lawman, thank you!) ~ Banking ~ Work in yard ~ Prep for Meeting ~ Piano Lesson ~ Go to Meeting ~ More laundry ~ Pay Bills ~ Balance Checkbook ~ File Paperwork ~ Read in Bed ~
You'll notice that family isn't included in my list. Turns out I was without them as Lawman had training and the girls went to the last high school baseball game. Hence the reason for making the most of my time.
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Yes, we do make a difference.
We've had the opportunity this weekend to share in celebrations with several young people and their families. I've enjoyed reflecting on our relationships with these kids and their families and how we've connected.
Some connections were made years ago. Some just a few months ago.
Throughout the weekend we saw many of the same faces over and over again. I've shared here before that we live in a small community so we know a large percentage of the population. This weekend it was obvious that we are a tight-knit community and that yes, we do make a difference in the lives of our young people. All the more reason to be more aware of the decisions I make, the words I say, and the actions I take because people are watching.
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Welcome to the Big Top. Catnip served here.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Kitchen Help
I'm of the opinion that new appliances constitute a major purchase. Not something I can just go buy on a whim. And, since we knew for some time that this purchase was going to be unavoidable, we planned for it. That translates to paid for in cash.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Run, Madison, Run
This spring we spent at least a day a week at the track. As spectators.
It's been a rule in our house that during jr. high, the girls must participate in at least two school sponsored sports.
Madison had it in her head that this rule wouldn't apply to her. Did she think that since it'd been 2 years since her sister was in jr. high that we had forgotten this rule? Much to her regret, we remembered. She signed up for track.
I think she was surprised how much she enjoyed it. I know. During enrollment she indicated that she plans to participate in volleyball and track next year.
I think one of our responsibilities as parents it to encourage our kids to try new things, even if it means pushing them outside of their comfort zone. If I don't encourage her to expand her horizons, who will?
Sunday, May 10, 2009
A Cabinet Full of Flavor
Friday, May 8, 2009
Seasonal Foods | Strawberries
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Sewing 101
I took Home Ec. I had to sew a skirt and blouse. That I never wore mind you unless you count the 'fashion show' we had to do at school. There was nothing fashionable about my outfit either. Probably why I'm not a fashion designer.
In today's FACS class you get to sew something that you'll use. Like a drawstring tote bag.
How cute is that? And usable!
I think I may need to check the local ads for a used sewing machine. Makes me want to get busy and stitch. Or maybe I should just let my daughter make one for me.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Menu Plan Monday

Saturday, May 2, 2009
Music Strikes a Chord
Today was band day for the jr. high. Since a jr. high girl lives in our house and plays the clarinet, you know where I spent a portion of my day.
Typically, it is something I don't look forward to.
Today I was pleasantly surprised at what I heard at their performance.
The music moved me. Nearly to tears.
Yes, I kid you not.
Their first number was a rendition of a childhood hymn ~ Jesus Loves Me.
I couldn't believe the reaction I had to their music. It was lovely.
I've been known to have damp eyes during our worship services while we are singing. I don't know what it is about the words of certain songs that chokes me up so. My girls don't understand it. Nor do I always. I do know it's about my relationship with Him. Something that I can't always put into words. A more accurate statement might be that my words don't begin to do justice.
As I was listening to today's music, it reminded me of a poem I read yesterday. I leave you with a portion of that poem. If you'd like to read the poem in it's entirety, go here.
Why is it that music
At its most beautiful
Opens a wound in us
An ache a desolation
Deep as a homesickness
For some far-off
And half-forgotten country